How does one succeed in life?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Is it very wrong to want to spend some time with husband after continuous work for 5 days in a weekend because my husband thinks if we go out every weekend what night my parents and other family members think?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Making more friends is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

That's it for today.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why have cell phones, the internet, and reality TV turned the world into a toilet, as this has not advanced us in any way?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Have you ever secretly watched someone while they were doing something private?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Does not procrastinate.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Ask yourself:

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Procrastinates a lot.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

What I need from you?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.